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There are two kinds of history in a long term love relationship.
The first kind is the history you bring to the relationship. The second kind is the history yoy create in a relationship.
The history you bring to a relationship
All of us have a relationship history. Our relationship history is made up of the relationships we have had , what happened in these relationships, and what we believe we have learned.
This kind of history influences who we choose to be in relationahip with , and how we view events in the current relationship.
Paying attention to this kind of relationship history can help us choose better partners and not repeat the same mistakes.
The history you create in a relationship
Then there is the history we create in a relationship. While we want to create only positive history, in any relationship of any length , there is going to be some negative history as well.
One of the challenges faced by the couples whom I coach is what to do with this history when you are trying to change and improve the relationship.
I think you need to be able to do at three things with this history:
1. Pay attention to the history.
2. Learn from the history.
3. Occasionally tell the history to Shut Up!
Here's what I mean.
There are times when a couple or a person is trying to change where history will whisper in your ear things like:
"Heshe is never gonna change."
"You know you can't get better."
Etc.
This is when you need to tell history to shut up, so you can create some positive history in the relationship.
Are Blogs Reliable as Information Sources? Internet Articles | December 17 , 2009
Although blogs are popular sources of information online the question repeatedly arises as to how accurate, on average , the information is.
With all the free online news available many still rely upon blogs as information sources primarily because of how quickly they update.
The fact of the matter is there are some definite pros and cons concerning blogs as a news source so read on as we discuss this issue.
With all the various information sources available online today many favor blogs as their primary source of news and information online. Free online news has helped to drive the growth of the internet and there is no sign of its popularity slowing. With all the various sources of information available however blogs have gained a reputation for late breaking news. This is due primarily to the fact that blogs are unencumbered concerning the accuracy of what their content contains.
A blog platform typically circumvents the traditional 'red tape' that can slow the delivery of news from syndicated sites. This advantage however can also work against a blog since facts may sometimes be distorted. Without any type of regulation in place blog posting sometimes tends to reflect more of the writers opinions. This leads to the question of whether blogs can be viewed as a source of reliable information.
Let's look at both the pros and cons associated with any news or information that is dispensed from a blog platform as opposed to a regulated news site.
The PROS:
Frequently Updated
A common characteristic of blogs is that they are updated frequently. Most information found on a blog continues to 'evolve' due to frequent updating. Syndicated news sites contain information that tends to 'stagnate' since updates are far and few in between.
Fast Breaking with News
Lacking the regulations of syndicated sites that slow down the process of dispensing news or information blogs have the ability to reflect 'real time' information. This is a major appeal for gathering information from these sites.
Insight
Being blogs are independent entities allows them to share their insights on the news and information they deliver. These insights can present the information in such a way that may encourage readers to consider certain perspectives they may have otherwise overlooked.
The CONS:
Too Subjective
An unregulated blog platform can easily present information or news that leans heavily towards the authors' personal opinions or perspective. Too much subjectivity can easily distort the information being delivered decreasing its real value to the reader.
Inaccurate
In a haste to 'rush' news inaccuracies happen. Being unregulated or unmonitored for news worthiness a certain expectation of unreliability does exist and therefore must be tolerated and expected.
Sometimes Hard to Locate
Where do you start to find the most accurate, objective , and authoritative site? Locating a credible blog site you can rely upon for its accuracy is a time consuming and uncertain task.
The only realistic test for such a site after you have located it is in fact your personal perseverance and time itself.
Upon reviewing the various pros and cons affiliated with using blogs as information sources questions remain as to their reliability. Free online news sites are typically more regulated thereby slowing their delivery of the news itself. On the other hand this also helps to validate these sites as reliable sources of information.? In fact the same regulation that may slow news delivery but is absent on blogs is why a typical blog posting may be questioned as reliable information. In the end it appears that many are willing to 'chance' the accuracy of their news in order to receive it in a more expedient manner. In a society dominated by an instant gratification mindset this is not all that surprising.
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